As I'm sure many others would like to believe, the struggles that you go through in life will only make you stronger. But Is it just me, or does everyone seem to come to the conclusion that most bad things happen to good people? So many beautiful hearted individuals that i know have faced so many over whelming obstacles within their lifetime that it's seemingly hard to wake up and face another day. From an absent parent to a deceased relative, life has it's unbearable times. Crying helps, indeed it does but in the end crying solves nothing. I'm not saying that it doesn't make you feel better but face it.. What happens when all the tears have dried up and they can no longer run? What's next? Many people keep their emotions balled up inside because they feel as though no one can help their situation. "If i open up and let someone know what's going on in my life, all the struggles that i have to deal with on a day to day basis and what runs through my mind 50% of the time; how could they help me?" It seems as though, no one can make your situation better no matter what they say because there is nothing they can do. Yet, they ask the questions along the lines of, "What's wrong? and Is there something I can do to help?" This only leads to one feeling as if they are obligated to say, "No, honestly it's nothing." When in all actuality all along they wish they could have told you but they felt as though you wouldn't understand. The answers seem so close, but yet they are so far away. Majority of our questions will remain unanswered; And I suppose that this will just be one of them. Still asking yourself "What can you do?" The answer to this is, get on your knees and pray because at the end of the day all you really have is GOD and your BIBLE.
-chelby t. handy
